A night view of Jerusalem from atop the Mount of Olives was our special treat only a few of hours after arriving in Israel. Majestic and beautiful only begin to describe the scene. When we returned in the daylight, this iconic view of Jerusalem was equally inspiring, looking across the Kidron Valley to the Old City landmarks (Temple Mount, Church of the Holy Sepulcher, Russian Orthodox Church of Mary Magdalene and more).

The Mt. of Olives is the location where Jesus spent much of His last week on earth; it is the site from which He ascended to heaven after His resurrection, and where He will one day return to earth. It is somewhat surreal to stand in this spot as you remember its history and look forward to its future.

Another cause for wonder in this place is the Jewish cemetery covering the slopes of the Mount of Olives. The cemetery contains anywhere between 70,000 and 150,000 tombs from various periods, including the tombs of famous figures in Jewish history.

We noticed rocks and pebbles piled on the graves – some more than others. We learned that Jewish tradition is to place rocks, rather than flowers, whenever the grave is visited. This lets the family know that someone cared enough to visit the grave. It communicates that the loved one is still thought about and missed. A logical conclusion might be more rocks = more love and respect for the departed.

Hopefully, the same respect was given during the person’s lifetime. Some have said (maybe in jest but with an element of sincerity), “Don’t send flowers when I die; bring them while I’m alive!” The Scriptures instruct us to pay special attention to the way we honor others, especially our elders, our Christian brothers and those in authority.

Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you. (Exodus 20:12)

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)

 Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king. (1 Peter 2:17)

So whether we’re talking about rocks or flowers, a good rule to follow is that we express our devotion sincerely while there is opportunity.